Die Poesie des Lebens(Rilke)

Heute hab ich an Rilke gedacht. Und an das wunderschöne Gedicht: Die Liebende Das ist mein Fenster. Eben bin ich so sanft erwacht. Ich dachte, ich würde schweben. Bis wohin reicht mein Leben, und wo beginnt die Nacht? Ich könnte meinen, alles wäre noch Ich ringsum; durchsichtig wie eines Kristalles Tiefe, verdunkelt, stumm. Ich könnte…

Independence&self-pshyhologie

Since my very childhood I always wished to be independent; to do things on my own; for no one to try to steal my ‘show’ or,actually, do the work for me and maybe get the reward or etc.Though I might appear careless at times, I, as a matter of fact,  always try to prove something…

Planning a wedding?

I have a client and am at this very moment planning her wedding day. It’s hard, at times, to cope with all of what has to be done. Just discovered this website for myself:http://www.weddingwire.com have you already checked it out?

It’s A Man’s World

I have figured out I am working like a man. Like many mad men who wants to earn it all, preferably at once. The problem is – I am not a man. I am a woman. And I am happy that I am. So the question arises. Why do I always push and try to…

What Would You Tell the 25 Year-Old You?

What Would You Tell the 25 Year-Old You? Boring people win. The people who achieve the most do a lot more of the boring stuff. Routine, rigor, attention to detail, churning away day after day… that is how you will succeed. Every elite athlete, entertainer, and successful businessperson you will eventually meet has put in…

hinderness to real happiness

Happiness does not depend on money earned. Nor on knowledge you have. Nor on your acquaintances. It depends solely on you. Whether you want to enjoy each moment or make it a torture. Whether you enjoy being depressed and having those dark thoughts in your mind. I changed my job, which I had for two…

I wish

I wish to be better, smarter, higher, skinnies, a non-smoker, loved by someone I love, married, having kids, doing a fantastic carrier and actually loving what I do. So I could do it endless amount of time. If I wish, well, then I have to make it happen. But the question is: how and shall…

strain and strength

The strain of life is what builds our strength. We face difficulties and we have to accept the challenge and get better, get stronger build ourselves up. But sometimes we are just depressed and deprived of the confidence we need. But it is of no use to just continuously look at the dark side of…

Summerpainting

Got inspired by a couple a few weeks ago. They were floating in the water, it was unbearably hot, but  it seems they didn’t really care about it.

looking for a partner?

i had the pleasure to meet an one old granny (90+)  and this is what she told me among the other scraps of her chronicles ” you should not rush with man. pick one, that after 40 years of joint life will tell you: you know darling, if I would have to live my life…

Sense of life

So, what is it that you want from life that you actually desire and that you will to do and what are your goals and the sence of you life? Have you ever given the thought a go? Have you ever spend time discussing and thinking of it? One of my girlfriends  told me a…